toneloc&company

I was thinking how we are all imperfect people. But if we are all so imperfect and trying to resolve this or work on it and become less imperfect and our best selves, then why is it we can not take any sort of criticism that suggests we are imperfect?

We are all so touchy when someone even suggests something less than perfection. When in truth if we actually are trying to become our best selves and trying to become better whatevers then you would think if someone had something that would help you reach that you would welcome it because in truth they are doing you a favor. However we just take anything people suggest (or even don't suggest) if it regards our insecurities and get all offended when really the person was doing a favor whether intentional or not. Seems to me if we know our insecurities we should look them in the eye and have a stand off. Not coward away from them and make excuses. Oh.. my favorite excuse is: That is just who I am. It may be who you are but it's a character flaw shouldn't you try to not be that way? I think when we are striving to not improve ourselves is when we should really feel insecure.

The picture reflects our perfect selves. I think Piper is the sweetest and often evilest person in the world. Her age is so innocent and she is so sweet and simple. One of my weaknesses is my patience with her. I just want so much to treat her like she deserves to be treated without ever any snapping or frustration. I don't know if this is possible, but once Jake told me when I was pregnant that it isn't Piper's fault that I am pregnant so if I am not feeling well don't take it out on her. I was only offended by this comment because it was true. It struck my insecurities and I chose to give it a good stand off. (And am still trying consistently). . When I am stressed about something or the baby is crying I remind myself it isn't her fault for any of it so don't even remotely take it out on her. So that.. is where this thought began, just so not to be confused.